Introduction

picky eater


Picky (or fussy) eating is one of the common feeding concerns of children and a cause of worry for many parents. Though there is no established standard definition, picky eating behavior is characterized by the unwillingness to eat familiar or try new foods, as well as having strong preferences towards certain foods.1 The most commonly accepted definition of picky eating is consumption of an inadequate variety or quantity of foods through the rejection of a substantial amount of both familiar and unfamiliar foods.2,3 Other possible definitions include restrictions on vegetable intake, provision of meals that are different from those of the caregivers/family, special methods of food preparation, consumption of inadequate amounts of food, and disruption of daily routines that is problematic to the child, parent or parent-child relationship.3 

Picky eating behavior is commonly reported among toddlers and may extend until school-age years. Some studies in neighboring countries reported prevalence of picky eaters ranging from 25% to 66%.4 In the Philippines, it was reported that 53% of Filipino mothers consider their children picky eaters.5 

In assessing children for picky-eating behaviors, pediatricians look for signs like neophobia (extreme dislike or fear of anything new or unfamiliar), strong preference or rejection of particular food items, and inadequate intake or variety of food present during toddler years. Various assessment tools for determining intrinsic features of picky eating were also compared,6 with the Children’s Eating Behaviour Questionnaire (CEBQ): food fussiness subscale as the most commonly used tool; however, this goes beyond picky eating as it also assesses the feeding style of the child. Moreover, it is important that various tools be used, looking at intrinsic and extrinsic factors for a more holistic approach.  

 

Factors Related to Picky Eating Behavior

Several factors influence picky eating behaviors in children.7 These include:

  1. childhood factors such as age, personality, tactile defensiveness, emotionality, and cognitive factors
  2. genetics
  3. environmental factors such as culture, peer influence, and media 
  4. parent influence particularly parent feeding practices

 

Causes of Picky Eating Behavior

Possible specific causes for fussy eating include early feeding difficulties, late introduction of lumpy foods at weaning, pressure to eat, and early choosiness, especially if the mother is worried about this.3

Identifying the factors or reasons behind picky eating behaviors is vital for parents and child caregivers so that appropriate interventions or strategies can be made early to correct the behaviors. 

 

Health and Nutrition Implications of Picky Eating

Health and Nutrition Implications of Picky Eating

 

Generally, studies and pediatricians note that though picky eating is common and a cause of considerable parental concerns and stress, it does not equate to malnutrition, and the majority of the children grow normally. Constant monitoring of the primary health provider is still important as possible deficiencies to essential nutrients are possible if picky eating is not managed correctly. 

  • Problems in weight management - One study demonstrated that study participants who were picky eaters aged 5 years at the baseline were slightly shorter, more often underweight, and less often overweight than non-picky eaters.8 Another study showed that being a picky eater had a main effect on height and weight (and on BMI and lean mass index (LMI) in male participants) and was predictive of being thin at a few age points.9
     
  • Micronutrient deficiencies - Picky eaters may have inadequate intakes of several important nutrients, such as zinc, iron, iodine, vitamin A, and vitamin D.5 Picky eaters aged 3 years were shown to have lower mean carotene, iron, and zinc intakes than non-picky eaters.10 These were attributed to the inadequate consumption of nutrient-dense foods, such as vegetables, fruits, and meat.5,10
     
  • Poor academic performance and physical activity - Picky-eating behavior have been shown to have detrimental impact not only on the growth, nutritional, and health status in preschool children but also in their development and physical activity.11 In another study, picky eaters were also shown to exhibit low development quality in their learning ability and physical performance, particularly in their attention span and uncooperativeness.12
     
  • Development of eating disorders during adulthood - Authors of one review revealed that picky eating has been identified as a risk factor for subsequent anorexia nervosa in one observational study.3 According to them, there may be a small subgroup of children with unresolved picky eating habits who might be at risk of developing an eating disorder or adult picky eating.

 

Strategies to avoid picky eating among children

There are several strategies and interventions to avoid or ameliorate picky eating in children. One of these is exclusive breastfeeding. A study concluded that the duration of exclusive breastfeeding influences pickiness and contributes to the increased vegetable intake in later childhood.13 Breastfed babies are exposed to an assortment of flavors from maternal milk, and so the transition from maternal milk to complementary foods may be easier for these children.13 This highlights the importance of proper and correct nutrition during the first 1000 days of the child, which starts from conception up to 2 years of age. 

Some practical tips for parents and caregivers are suggested by the National Nutrition Council to help provide your children with healthy and nutritious foods, and restore harmony during mealtime14:

practical tips for parents and caregivers to help provide your children with healthy foods

 

  1. Respect your child’s appetite. Avoid forcing a meal or snack on your child if he or she isn’t hungry. Refrain from bribing or forcing your child to eat certain foods or to clean his or her plate. Force feeding or pressuring your kid to eat may only lead to a power struggle. This could also make your child associate mealtime with anxiety and frustration or become insensitive to his or her own hunger and satiety cues.
     
  2. Stick to the routine. Offer food at around the same time each day. If your child doesn’t eat a meal, take the opportunity to offer healthy foods during the regular snack time.
     
  3. Be patient with new foods. When offered a new food, children usually touch or smell the food. Children may even put small bits of food in their mouths and then spit them out. Repeated exposure to a new or unfamiliar food may be needed before your child takes the first bite. It takes 10-20 exposures for children to learn to enjoy certain foods. Create a positive atmosphere for trying new foods during mealtimes.
     
  4. Don’t give in. Never exempt a child and prepare a separate meal if your child refuses to eat your family meal. Providing a separate meal specially prepared for your child may promote picky eating. Encourage your child to sit and remain at the table for the allotted mealtime even if he or she doesn't eat.
     
  5. Make it fun and be creative. Make meals look incredible and appetizing by cutting foods into various shapes. Dish up some breakfast foods for dinner. Include a variety of brightly colored foods in the food repertoire.
     
  6. Ask Help. Involve your child in selecting fruits, vegetables and other healthy foods when in the grocery. Avoid buying anything that you don't want your child to eat. At home, get your child involved in food preparation or setting the table.
     
  7. Set a good example. Model healthy eating habits to your child. If you eat a variety of healthy foods yourself everyday, your child will more likely follow your lead.
     
  8. Minimize distractions. Turn the TV and other electronic gadgets off during mealtimes. This way, your child could focus on eating. Bear in mind that TV or social media advertising may also influence your child to crave for sugary or non-nutritious foods.

 

Creative menu planning need not be expensive or require professional culinary skills. You may experiment with local and indigenous ingredients readily available in your area or even in your backyard. Incorporating these ingredients into familiar food items or favorite viands can help expose picky eaters to a variety of food groups. 

For example, amp up the nutritional value of the usual spaghetti by adding tofu, green veggies like moringa (malunggay) and deep-colored veggies like carrots in meatballs. The usual commercial chips may be replaced by water spinach (kangkong) chips or veggie tempura with real cheese sauce. Kids with a sweet tooth will love the addition of squash (kalabasa), sweet potatoes (camote) or other tubers in pastillas or leche flan. Make healthier snack items like cheese sticks, rice cake (puto), cookies or veggie balls by incorporating local greens like amaranth (kulitis), Malabar spinach (alugbati) and local spinach. 

Here’s a sample one-week menu for your picky eaters. Vegetables and fruits are incorporated in the usual viands and snacks. Portions will depend on the recommended amount per age.
 

ONE-WEEK SAMPLE MENU FOR PICKY EATERS
DAYBFASTAM SNACKLUNCH (SCHOOL BAON)PM SNACKDINNER
MondayCheesy Veggie
omelet

Pandesal

Fresh Orange
juice
Peanut Butter
Camote Balls
Tofu, Pork and
Malunggay
Lumpiang
Shanghai

Brown Rice

Apple
Carrot Spaghetti
with Veggie
meatballs
(Add grated
carrots in the
sauce and
meatballs)
Sinigang with vegetables
(see link below table)

Brown Rice

Creamy
Avocado and
Banana dessert
TuesdayOatmeal with
Banana or Apple

Milk
Malunggay
Cheese Sticks
Arroz ala Cubana

Brown Rice

Kiat Kiat
Brown Rice
Champorado
with
Crispy Dilis
Chicken Pork
Adobo with
Liver
(see link below table)

Vegetable
Tempura

Brown Rice

Carrot Pastillas
WednesdaySardines Misua
with Patola

Brown Rice

Fresh Ponkan
Juice
Kalabasa Maja
Blanca
Cheesy Tortang
Talong

Brown Rice

Banana
Ginataang
Monggo (Lelut
Balatong)
Pork Pochero
(see link below table)

Brown Rice

Buko Juice or
Buko Shake
ThursdayBreakfast Cereal
with nuts and
fruits
(see link below table)

Milk
(see link below table)
Malunggay
Cookies
Veggie and Tuna
Pancake
Okonomiyaki

Brown Rice

Grapes
Cheese
Pimiento Star
Sandwich
(or any fun
shapes)
Sipo Eggs with
vegetables

Brown Rice

Mango Sago
FridayVeggie Tinapa
Fried Rice with
Egg
Veggie Balls and
Kangkong chips
with sweet and
sour dip or
garlic aioli
Tortang giniling
with Alugbati

Brown Rice

Banana
Mango
Champorado
Chicken Binakol
with papaya &
Malunggay
(see link below table)

Brown Rice

Milky Melon
Juice
SaturdayBrown Rice
Arrozcaldo with
Kulitis

Papaya with
milk
GinanggangPininyahang
Manok with
carrots and
potato

Brown Rice

Ube haleya
Tofu, beef and
veggie burger
with bacon and
cheese
Fried Fish
Escabeche

Malunggay
Fritters

Brown Rice

Fruit Salad
(see link below table)
SundayBanana
Pancake
(upgraded and
less sinful
maruya)
(see link below table)

Taho or flavored
soymilk
Kalabasa
Brownies
Fried Chicken

Cheesy Broccoli
soup

Brown rice

Chocolate
covered fruit
Creamy
Malunggay
Pesto Pasta
with bacon bits
Beef Bulalo with
veggies and
sweet corn

Brown Rice

Knickerbocker
(Fresh fruit halo
halo with dragon
fruit)


Sinigang with vegetables - https://www.maggi.ph/recipes/sinigang-na-bangus-sa-sampaloc/

Chicken Pork Adobo with Liver - https://www.maggi.ph/recipes/supreme-chicken-pork-adobo/

Pork Pochero - https://www.maggi.ph/recipes/pork-pochero/

Breakfast Cereal - https://www.nestle-cereals.com/ph/products-promotions/brands/koko-krunch-brand

Chicken Binakol - https://www.maggi.ph/recipes/easy-chicken-binacol/

Fruit Salad - https://www.createwithnestle.ph/recipes/classic-fruit-salad

Banana Pancake - https://www.milo.com.ph/recipes/milo-oat-n-banana-pancakes
 

Lastly, create positive social experiences around mealtimes. Let your child enjoy each mealtime experience with the family.

 

Message to RNDs

Picky eating of children is a phase that can be powered through with a supportive environment and the guidance of health professionals. Since the first 1000 days of a child’s life (conception until two years of age) is the golden window of opportunity, this is the perfect time to invest early in their health. As RNDs, educate parents and/or child caregivers important child feeding techniques including responsive feeding, routine establishment, and creativity in food presentations.

 

Pro Tip

Despite the challenges of picky eating, proper nutrition can be achieved through MOVABA - MOderation, VAriety and BAlance. Include a VAriety of food in the child’s diet with a BAlance of nutrients and keep indulgent favorite food items in MOderation.